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Ron Tate
2005 State King
Runner-Up
67 pounds to goal
Our son, Roger was excited and wanted to show me something. He led
me into the master bath and proudly showed off a brand-new balance
beam clinical scale. The scale did not exactly enhance the decor. Our
daughter-in-law, Terresa, was not excited at all.
Roger wanted to lose weight and get back to the size
he was when he left home to go to college in 1981. I doubted that he
would lose weight, but he did. In about 6 months he lost about 80
pounds. I admit that I envied the way he looked. I remembered
when I looked like that. The son was leading the father.
In December of 2003 I was telling stories at a local
library. My wife Deanna took my picture. When I saw the picture I was
embarrassed. Pictures are absolutely merciless. I want the listeners
to hear the stories and not be distracted by my appearance.
I was tired of wearing "stretch" clothes and tired of
wearing suspenders most of the time. Playing with the grandchildren
was not fun. Getting up and down off the floor required great effort.
More than anything I wanted to be like I was when I
was younger. I grew up a skinny kid with big ears. I wanted the
"skinny" but not the big ears. I did not put on weight until I was 25.
I had lost weight twice before. As most people do, I
put it all back plus some. This was the greatest discouragement to
losing.
My wife, Deanna, had been a member of TOPS®for several
years. I hesitated to join because it was, in my view, a "women's
club". She told me that Chapter #1152 had one male member, Don Teague.
I decided to take the plunge. I joined in January 2004.
I am not much of a "joiner" and admit that I felt out
of place for about 2 minutes. The common purpose and
encouragement from TOPS®members make I work. Yvonne, Bonnie,
Arlene, Diana, Vickie, Peggy, Naomi, Chris, Deanna and don are my
buddies.
This story is still being written. Everyday I am
grateful for the change in my life and the love and support I know I
have for the future.
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Billie Sawyer
2005 State Queen
Runner-Up
114.50 pounds to goal
I grew up in the time of Betty Grable, Jane
Russell and Marilyn Monroe. Round, full, voluptuous figures were
just not the norm. They were desired. I had one, but unfortunately, I
loved to eat. When I married, my husband also loved to eat and I was a
very good cook, a dangerous combination. With my daughter's
birth, I added more pounds. Then began the gain/lose see-saw that
became my life.
Fast forward to February 1987 and my
daughter Diane, our Chapter Leader, and I joined another weight loss
group. I weighed 301 pounds. Working hard, by June I had lost 44
pounds when my husband and I went on vacation with my daughter's
family of seven. Shortly after return ing home, Diane and her youngest
son were in a serious car wreck. My life changed and dieting was the
last thing on my mind. I became nurse, nanny, chauffer, cook and
house-keeper. Five months later, my husband had his first heart attack
after two previous strokes.
Fast food was comfort and because I
didn't have time to cook, I existed in this fast food limbo for
another 18 months before my husband passed away. By that time I had
added on more weight. My neighbor was a TOPS®member and kept asking me
to visit her Chapter. I kept saying "No" and continued my unhealthy
eating habits. In November of 1989, with her persistence, I said "Yes"
and joined that night.
I did really well, but life threw me
another challenge when two months later, my daughter's marriage ended
and she and her two teenage sons moved in with me. The good news was
that she joined TOPS®also. We both did well and I actually reached
"halfway to goal". I guess that was about the time I got hungry again.
There was really no excuse, but it was back to yo-yo.
In 2000, I started to have severe hip
pain that continually got worse. I digressed from cane to walker. My
doctor said that I needed a hip replacement, but he would NOT consider
it until I lost 100 pounds. Pain is a great motivator. Shortly
after that, my daughter was diagnosed with MS and I was in a wheel
chair. Unsure how our health would progress, we took a leap of
faith, flew to Alaska and toured the state.
By March 2003, I had lost 70 pounds, but
because my hip had disintegrated, they had to go ahead with my hip
surgery. This relieved my hip pain, but damaged a nerve in my leg
causing me to have drop foot. I was in a wheel chair for another year,
but still continued losing. On October 21, 2003 I achieved my
100-pound loss and on October 21, 2004, I met my one-year maintenance.
But, more important, on September 9, 2004, I met my goal and became a
KOPS®with a total loss of 114 1/2 pounds! It was a long, hard
struggle. My wish for all my TOPS®friends; Overcome your
challenges and don't give up. |